Born January 18, 2016 at 10:35am
6lb 5oz, 20 inches
I was convinced that the baby would not come early, seeing as all my fervent early-baby wishes last time were futile. So when I went into labor at 37.5 weeks, it took a while to believe it was actually the real thing. I kept thinking, "It's too early for baby to come. I thought I had at least a couple of weeks to prepare. I was going to make a hat for her!"
My first labor was 15.5 hours and rather...laborous. My second was 1 hours 45 minutes and rather adventurous. This one was a nice middle ground: 5.5 hours that I would best describe as peaceful. Plenty of time to get to the hospital and settle in, and when she decided it was time to come, she shot out in about 30 seconds, and I got to help catch her. I will write up the full story soon, because I do love a good birth story.
Because Nadia was born earlier than we expected, and because these things seem to be harder to decide once you get to the third baby, Nadia was born before we had a chance to finalize the name. So we spent our first few hours after birth getting to know baby and trying to settle on a name. In the end, I'm glad we waited until we met her, because while she looked more like "squishy newborn baby" than any particular name, I think Nadia really fits her.
We both liked the sound and meaning of the name Nadia Charlotte. We wanted each of the girls to have a meaningful name, not something to grow into and experience in their lives. Juliana Grace means "youthful grace." Adalyn Lucia means "noble light." Nadia Charlotte means "hope free."
The fact that Nadia decided to come early on MLK Day makes her name even more appropriate. Our prayer is that her life will similarly be a beacon of hope and freedom. I have been thinking of the words of Isaiah, echoed by Jesus: "The Spirit of the Sovereign Lord is on me, because the Lord has anointed me to proclaim good news to the poor. He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives and release from darkness for the prisoners." Such words of hope, ringing with freedom - we ask that she will experience this reality in her own life and fight for freedom for others.
Baby is nearly a week old and doing well. She got down to 5lb 11oz but has already started gaining back. After a very sleepy start, she has been nursing well. Her nursing schedule is something like this: Wake up and nurse a bit, fall into floppy sleep, wake up 20 minutes later and nurse some more, sink into a deeper sleep until alerted by a six sense that mama is trying to sleep, take a shower, or eat, wake up desperately hungry. She has occasional alert spells but more often than not can be found sacked out in someone's arms.
Mama is tired and sore but enjoying her internal organs all returning to their usual place. While Nadia has been sleeping semi constantly, there hasn't been a whole lot of sleep for me (shocker, huh?). One of the real mysteries of newbornhood is how baby can sleep 20 hours while mama sleeps 4. I don't get it. Last night Nadia slept for three hours straight - then she nursed for three hours straight. I didn't know that was possible, but I'm actually not exaggerating. I am enjoying lots of warm baby snuggles and trying to share some with baby's many admirers.
Speaking of admirers, her sisters are big fans! Juliana keeps saying, "I really like the baby!" At first she would say, "Nadia is just wondering where mama is," but after holding the baby for the first time, she changed it to, "Nadia is just wondering where her sister is!" Adalyn alternates between shy interest, indifference, and rough love. Nadia has also enjoyed lots of attention from her grandparents and aunts, including her doctor aunt who is the first to describe her as "anatomically intact."
|Miraculously, no one was harmed in the making of this photograph|
Enjoying our first days with this squishy little baby!